who am i to judge you?

"dan menfitnah itu lebih buruk dari membunuh."

 -Al-Baqarah 2:191-

being judgemental and 'fitnah' are totally 2 different things. kalau kau ada pendapat peribadi tentang sesuatu yang kau lihat, dengar atau berdasarkan pengalaman kau sendiri, that's your right to do so. like, who am i to judge you by having that kind of thought? really.because one of the main features of being a normal human is having a thought about something or people or event occurring around us. me, being a human with a normal frontal lobe, i couldn't help to be judgmental too. tak payah nak cakap orang sana sini being judgemental sebab dengan mengata orang judgemental kau pun judgemental.

like i said i don't mind mind if people want to express their own opinion because for me it's normal. tetapi meluahkan pendapat dan menuduh seseorang itu dua perkara yang berbeza. lebih-lebih lagi kalau melibatkan maruah. ye maruah. aku perempuan. ada maruah. as much as people see me as 'hati kering', 'emotionless', i'm still a woman with dignity. ingat tu.